As I re-entered the world of singledom, after the South African, some things became disturbingly clear
I realized that I have a post break-up habit. Some people get a drastic hair cut. Some people gain or even lose 15 lbs. For me, after a relationship ends I tend to become a true believer in free love. During which I made good use of all of my gentleman’s socializing networks. I could be found chatting with guys at the gym, at work, at home. I would even travel the length of Manhattan to partake in an extra long lunch break. Just to clarify, this was NOT my prior lunch date. Within the midst of my newly rejuvenated spurt of free love, there were a couple observations that shocked and confused me.